You don’t need another breakthrough.
You need the system that translates a lifetime of self-awareness, inner work, mind-blowing retreats and peak experiences into your
New Normal!
· 55€ until Black Friday ·
111€ after
A 3-Day Live Masterclass with Alexandra, delivered twice.
02, 03, and 04 of December at 9 am UK / 7 pm AEST 🇦🇺
& 09, 10, & 11 of December at 4 pm UK / 8 am PST 🇺🇸
Arriving: How to Stop Chasing Healing and Start Walking the Path
You’re Wired to Belong. And That’s Why Expansion Feels Like Death
In ancient Greece, there was a saying, “The tall stalks get cut down”.
If you were raised in a family where…
— being too happy was silly or too much
— dreaming anything out of the ordinary was considered straight-up ridiculous and “not for people like us”…
— making a lot of money was selfish, dirty, and bad
…then somewhere along the way, you learned that if you rose too far above the group you became a threat.
If you shone too brightly, someone would feel insecure and ask you to dim it down.
If you drew outside the lines, you’d be corrected, judged, or quietly exiled.
That’s why every time you inch toward the life your soul keeps pointing at… you:
Collapse.
Procrastinate.
Overthink.
Freeze.
Get a headache and have to call it a day.
Clean the house.
Start another course.
Promise you’ll do it tomorrow.
Binge a podcast about purpose instead of living your purpose.
Convince yourself you need “just one more insight” before you take action.
Keep taking care of everyone else, drowning in second and third-best versions of life that look ‘good enough’ from the outside but do absolutely nothing to quench that insatiable thirst in your soul.
And then you call it “self-sabotage,” as if there’s something wrong with your willpower.
But you’re not sabotaging yourself. You’re protecting the ancient survival setting that says, “If I grow too tall, I’ll be cut down.”
If living on purpose wasn’t normalised in your family, then of course your nervous system panics when you get close to a breakthrough.
Unconscious beliefs will talk you out of outgrowing yourself (and your tribe) and you’ll relapse back into your old baseline almost automatically.
…So the real question becomes:,
How do we normalise extra-ordinary?
That’s exactly what we’re doing inside this class.
➜ You’ll learn not only how to hold the expansion without collapsing, but also how to make expansion feel like safety in your body. If you follow the frameworks I’ll teach you and repeat them enough times (yes, I’ll tell you the exact frequency), your breakthrough will become your new default operating system.
➜ You’ll learn exactly how to rewire your nervous system, your identity, and your environment so that your expanded self becomes your new baseline, not a peak moment you keep snapping out of.
Because you don’t need to remember who you are.
You need to forget who you’re not.
This is For You if:
☾ You’ve done more inner work than anyone in your environment, but your life still doesn’t reflect the person you know you are inside. You have the habits you know you should (for the majority of the time), breathwork, meditation, a coach or therapist… and yet, something has yet to click.
☾ You’ve had powerful breakthroughs (psychedelic, spiritual, personal development) that showed you your potential… but within weeks you snap back to the old baseline and find yourself thinking:
“I know I’ve come a long way… so why am I still not there yet?”
I’ve done SO much work — where are the results?”
“How long is this going to take?” “Is healing ever going to end?”
You feel a quiet ache: a sense you’re here for something MORE: more human, more creative, more meaningful. But don’t know how to move from vision → daily action → embodied identity.
You’ve collected every tool under the sun (somatics, meditation, journaling, manifestation, breathwork), but still don’t know what to use, when, or in what sequence when you’re overwhelmed or triggered.
You’ve felt “not fully yourself” in your current environment, like parts of you are too big, too delusional, too idealistic, too unconventional… and it creates internal conflict.
You’re no longer interested in chasing peak experiences; you want to build the structure to live in that state without needing another journey or escape.
☾ You want to be around someone who sees your potential and activates it. Even reminds you of it when you forget or feel like giving up.
A framework you can hold onto when your mind is chaotic, when relationships feel out of alignement and when you get overwhelmed by the information and modality overload.
☾ A way out of mindfuck and back into trust. There’s bigness in your heart, and you want to know what to realistically do to not get overwhelmed by your big vision but focus on a step at a time.
☾ You feel overwhelmed by the many paths to healing, unsure where to start, what to prioritize, and how long to commit. You’re ready for a realistic and simplified approach to integration.
☾ You often doubt your ability to persevere and create real, pivotal change in your life, given past attempts that didn’t stick… But a part of you knows deep down that transformation is possible and that part will never give up on seeking the right guide and tools. — That part brought you to this page. 💛
Most people don’t struggle because they lack insight. They struggle because they lack a system.
Inside the masterclass, you’ll learn the exact architecture that turns breakthroughs into identities:
Day One
Today you will understand the EXACT reason your breakthroughs don’t stick and why you feel misaligned even though you’ve done all the work.
You’ll leave this two-hour class with:
My 7-Step Integration Framework that fills every gap in the life post-breakthrough.
The 3 levels that make learning and transformation stick
The Integration Arc, 6 Pillars to ground your integration, to feel fulfilled, make progress, be in constant forward movement, heal blocks of the past while simultaneously bringing a wild vision into life.
03 or 10 Dec
04 or 11 Dec
Day two
Why You Can’t “Make Yourself” Do the Things Your Soul Knows You Need (And How to Shift This)
On day two of the masterclass, you’ll learn how to overcome the exact patterns that hold 99% of seekers back right before a breakthrough: resistance, self-sabotage, fear of failure, fear of success, being talked about, being judged or ridiculed in front of people they know.
When you’re on the path of growth, when you’ve experienced many deaths and rebirths and you’re here to either self-actualise or die trying, you get to graduate from level 1 (stopping at the sight of resistance) to level 2 (leaning in).
Through an archetypal story and a psychology, as well as my own coaching tips, this class will help you redefine your relationship with resistance and drastically shift how you move through it.
We will end with a guided somatic meditation. Think Joe Dispenza-style adjusted to extra-ordianry experiences.
02 or 09 Dec
Day three
Today you’ll learn the mindset, identity and energetic shifts required to live from that bigness in your heart,
Realistic vs delusional mindset
Your position means nothing. Your direction means everything.
How to keep making progress long after willpower runs out
Why This Works When Everything Else Hasn’T
Most retreats, courses, and ceremonies change your state, but they don’t change your identity. Or your life long-term.
Here’s why:
People confuse pattern interrupts with lasting transformation.
A pattern interrupt is a wake-up call:
🧘♀️ The retreat
🍄 The ceremony
📚 The masterclass
🌍 The trip abroad
It’s powerful, because it creates momentum, and momentum is the catalyst for change.
A pattern interrupt pulls you out of the familiar environment that programmed you 🧠, the one that keeps reminding you of your roles, attachments, the people and conversations that → recreate the same thoughts → that fuel the same emotions → that lead to the same behaviours and actions → that ultimately, lead to your predictable life.
When you leave that environment and surround yourself with like-minded people, a mentor who believes in your bigness, ideas that “brainwash” you into all the ways that your dreams are possible, and even a psychedelic that quiets the inner critic… your system becomes a fertile field for transformation.🌱
🏔️ It’s like fresh snow on a mountain, covering the old tracks.
You suddenly see who you could be.
It feels as if you’re getting a new chance at life.
The limit does not exist.
Suddenly, you can think new thoughts, set new goals, dream again.
Pattern interrupts are extremely valuable because it’s hard to change in the same environment that shaped you.
But ‼️
If you want that change to last, you have to stay IN momentum.
That’s where most people get confused, as they go home with no roadmap of what to do next, feel isolated, wing it, change nothing in their ordinary lives, and start believing the shift was temporary.
What’s missing? A holistic and long-term integration system.
Integration is the part no retreat teaches.
It’s the aftercare.
It’s the practice.
It’s the rhythm.
It’s the repetition.
It’s the “living it,” not just “realising it.”
Integration is the bridge between your breakthrough and a new reality.
It’s taking the lessons off the mat and into the real world.
It’s the consistent practices, reminders, and conversations that lock in your “aha” moments as you keep practising them week after week.
Without integration, those fresh neural pathways fade within days!
🔥 Pattern interrupts ignite the fire.
🔥 Integration keeps it burning.
👉 Confuse the two, and you’ll keep wondering why your afterglow fades.
👉 Learn the difference, and you’ll be unrecognizable six months from now.
This is what my entire framework is built on.
And this class is your first taste of it.
NOTHING MATTERS UNLESS IT CHANGES YOUR BEHAVIOUR!
Tuesday-Thursday, 2-4 December at 9-11 am UK / 5-7 pm BST
*There will be recording available to all registrants.
“Your behaviors are usually a reflection of your identity. What you do is an indication of the type of person you think you are—either consciously or nonconsciously.”
— James Clear
